You start comparing your horrific ex-spouses or your crazy awful dates.
In fact, it's best if you know you can be totally happy without a guy. If your school doesn't have many dances, you can go to other school events together, especially football or basketball games.
Some 42 percent have better quality dates, and 52 percent say part of the allure of dating in the 50s is the absence of the tick-tock of the biological clock.
But every day I coach women like you through situations they wish they didn't get into.
Dating after 40 or 50 means taking control of your love life, just like you do the rest of your life.
Baggage bonding is when an early date shifts into deep conversation about some baggage you have in common.